Both

 Somewhat adult theme today. You have been warned!

Am I too old to listen to music like this? 

Today's earworm: Both, by Todrick Hall. 

I encountered this song first on TikTok, in the context of content creators who switch between masc and femme presentation. Though my inclinations are pretty traditional and binary-oriented, I can appreciate the efforts and creativity of those who explore beyond the binary. 

I find myself thinking, I'm so proud of this young generation that eschews traditional gender presentation. They explore, they push limits, and most of all, they enjoy themselves while doing so. Good for them.