A woman whom Herself knows is dying.
The woman -- we shall call her Em -- is part of the "family" of individuals who formed the core of the gym when Offspring the Third (and eventually Herself, and Offspring the First and Second) began taekwondo. Em is a remarkable presence; she lights up a room. Her lovely hair, pristine skin, and quick smile have always shone despite the rare and difficult medical condition that has plagued her for a very long time. Em has a certain kind of serenity, likely brought about by her needing to pace herself carefully lest she wear herself out. She is occasionally cynical and ribald; we have never seen her angry or in a panic. She makes people laugh.
Em has a beautiful young daughter, talented in martial arts, with eyes and a charming smile that are quite similar to those of her mother. A marvelous legacy, her daughter: Em's lasting gift to the world.
When we think of Em, we immediately think of Em's giant heart for her friends: amigas, so tightly knit, never hesitant to help one another, present for one another through times of difficulty, understanding one another so well. It is a rare gift from the Universe, to have a close friend such as Em has been to hers. She will leave behind tremendous footprints in the hearts of so many people.
We will remember you, Em. Rest well, and find peace and joy. Godspeed.
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What a touching tribute.
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